Free Consultation with a Divorce Lawyer

Free Consultation with a Divorce Lawyer, Man and Woman meeting
The free consultation should be a positive experience.

A free consultation with a divorce lawyer can be a great idea.  Most divorce attorneys or family law firms advertise for a free or low-cost consultation.  However, we do a bad job of explaining them.  In addition, consultations vary depending on the law office. 

The ambiguity surrounding a legal consultation is a disservice to you.  It creates confusion and frustration during the consultation, which often translates into a missed opportunity for you to get to know a divorce lawyer better. 

Free Consultation with a Lawyer: What it is Not

Needing legal guidance and counsel in your divorce are reasons to hire an attorney.  At the free consultation with a lawyer, the divorce attorney typically will not provide significant legal advice or guidance regarding how to proceed with your divorce or what steps you’ll want to take next.

“Legal advice” is not always well-defined.  My office considers legal advice to be any of the following:

  • I have “X” family situation, what do I do?
  • I have “X” family situation, what happens in the legal system?
  • How do I do “X” legal procedure?

Lawyers don’t give free legal advice for three reasons. 

First, lawyers are pay for service professionals.  Providing legal advice is a service.  Everyone is familiar with getting paid for your work.

Second, a phone consultation typically does not provide enough information to the lawyer.  A lawyer can’t give fully informed advice based on a phone call.

Third, legal advice creates ethical problems.  This relates to the second point, providing advice without fully understanding the situation.  Also, it may create ambiguity about the lawyer’s role with the person receiving the advice.  If it were wrong and the potential client relied on that information, the lawyer could be liable.

Therefore, if you’re looking to the free consultation for free legal advice, it can be irritating to you and a waste of your time.

To compare, think about the medical profession. When you go to the doctor, you report your symptoms.  Based on his or her knowledge, expertise, training, etc. he or she determines what’s wrong and provides a remedy.

You see a doctor because you lack the knowledge and experience required to diagnosis yourself.  Therefore,  you pay the doctor for these services. Similarly, when you obtain a lawyer, you’re paying for his or her legal knowledge, experience and expertise. 

Free Consultation with a Lawyer: What it is

A free consultation with a divorce lawyer is like a job interview. At the consultation you ask questions of multiple applicants.  In this case, the applicants are different different divorce lawyers.

The consultation has several purposes.  First, the lawyer needs to know that your situation is one he or she is qualified to handle.  In the case of Majeski Law, most people find the firm through the internet.  So, callers know the firm works in divorce and family law.  However, even so some people call with other legal questions outside the scope of this practice.

Second, it allows the lawyer to determine the case is within his or her jurisdiction.  For example, Majeski Law is a Minnesota firm only.  Working near the Wisconsin border, we sometimes receive calls from Wisconsin families.

Third,  it gives you the chance to evaluate the lawyer and his or her firm.  You can determine if he or she is a good fit for you.  Questions ideally focus on the lawyer’s practice, general procedural questions, and cost questions. This consultation typically doesn’t need to be more than 15-30 minutes for divorce and family situations.

Either the divorce attorney or a good legal assistant/paralegal can conduct the consultation with you and answer questions you may have before making your decision. Therefore, although you won’t receive any free legal advice or counsel, a consultation still has great value to you and you should seek consultation before retaining a divorce attorney.

Benefits of a Free Consultation, Part I

1. You ensure that the divorce attorney you’re looking at hiring practices in family law and has experience with divorce cases similar to your own.

 Although hopefully the firm’s marketing takes care of this issue by making it clear what types of cases and areas of law the attorney practices on the firm’s website, it’s always good to double check.

Especially with large law firms, you’ll want to make sure that the divorce attorney who is representing you in your divorce case not only will be the same attorney throughout your divorce, but also that he or she practices in divorce and family law, and has significant experience with divorce and family law cases. 

2. You ensure that the divorce attorney you’re looking at hiring can dedicate the time and effort your divorce case deserves and that s/he isn’t overloaded with a number of other matters at the moment. 

It’s reasonable to ask during the consultation about the attorney’s        caseload in order to confirm that s/he is equipped and capable      serving  you as a client. 

Free Consultation with a Lawyer
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3. You ensure that the divorce attorney you’re looking at hiring doesn’t have any conflict of interests or any other ethical reasons for why s/he would not be a good fit for you and your divorce.

To do this, a divorce lawyer will request basic information about you and your divorce case.  This includes your full name, location and your spouse’s full name. It’s the attorney’s responsibility to inform  you immediately if he or she is not able to talk with and/or represent you due to a conflict of interest. 

Benefits of a Free Consultation, Part II

4. You ensure that any questions you have about the attorney and/or the firm are answered ahead of time, before committing to that lawyer.

5. You ensure that you understand the attorney’s and/or the firm’s legal practices, such as, the engagement and fee agreements.

6. By consulting with a attorney beforehand, you increase your chances of finding one that fits best for you. As a result, you’re more likely to be satisfied with his or her services in the end. 

7. A consultation allows you to shop around so that you can find the best divorce attorney for you and your divorce. In no way are you bound to one divorce attorney simply because you participated in a consultation. Instead, a attorney-client relationship only forms after the both of you have signed some sort of engagement letter

For other divorce or family law questions, please consult the list to the left or the FAQ page.  If you’re interested in retaining an attorney to help you, please feel free to contact my office for a consultation using the contact information on the left or the contact form on the Majeski Law home page.  For Court rules, please click here.