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Preparing for an Intake Appointment with a Divorce Attorney

Preparing for an Intake Appointment with a Divorce Attorney

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Welcome to the third post in our blog series, What to Know Before Meeting with a Divorce Attorney.

In our first post, we discussed what to expect during a consultation and how to use the consultation to find the best divorce attorney for you.

Next, in our second post, we talked about scheduling an intake appointment with a divorce attorney and what things you’ll want to ask, in case you forgot during the consultation or simply can’t recall after talking with a few divorce attorneys. The article includes a handy checklist for you!

Today’s post is about preparing for an intake appointment with a divorce attorney by giving you a few pointers on what you’ll want to bring with you when you meet with him/her. 

What To Bring to an Intake Appointment with a Divorce Attorney

1. Current Court Documents:

This refers to any and all court documents you’ve received before your intake appointment with a divorce attorney. For example, if you’ve been served by your spouse or s/he has filed for a divorce in Minnesota, you should have received two documents known as, the Petition and Summons.

It’s essential that you bring these documents (such as, the Petition and Summons) to avoid missing the deadline to contest your divorce and thus, forfeit your right to express your opinion regarding significant aspects of your divorce (such as, property division, child custody and child support).

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To illustrate, in Minnesota you only have 30 days to respond after you’ve been served and your reply must be properly formatted into a legal document called, the Answer, which typically also includes one’s Counter-Petition

For more information about the initial steps in a divorce in Minnesota and the legal documents mentioned above (such as, the Petition, Summons, Counter-Petition, Answer, etc…) read: How Do You Get a Divorce in Minnesota.

2. Previous Court Documents:

It’s also helpful for you to bring any other court documents from previous divorce and/or family law cases that you were involved in (if any) before this divorce.

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For example, if applicable, you want to bring the following documents listed below:

  • Court documents from any/all previous divorces, such as the Findings of Fact, Conclusions of Law, Order for Judgement and Judgement and Decree. The judgement and decree is the final court document that is signed by the judge, establishes the divorce between the couple, and spells out the duties and responsibilities of each party regarding such matters as, property and asset division, child custody and child support.  
  • Other family law related court documents, such as Orders For Protection, Recognition of Parentage (ROP’s), Child Support and/or Child Custody Modification Arrangements, etc.

3. Financial Documents and Other Important Documents: 

If you have any original financial documents such as, you and/or your spouse’s paystubs, 401k statements, pension plans, tax returns, etc… it’s in your best interest to start collecting these immediately so that you can give them to your divorce attorney.

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Although we don’t require original financial documents right away, some law offices like to collect these documents immediately. As mentioned in our previous post, it’s best if you find out exactly what documents your divorce attorney will require from you at the intake appointment by asking during the consultation or when you’re scheduling the intake appointment.

* NOTE: Please be assured that although most divorce attorneys will ask for such financial documents, if you don’t have access to some/any of these financial documents, your divorce attorney should help you get access. In Minnesota, both parties are required to disclose any and all information to one another, but here’s what you should do if you believe your spouse is hiding assets from you

4. Retainer Payment:

Most divorce and family law firms require some form of an initial retainer before working on your case. You can think of the retainer as an initial, good-faith deposit that demonstrates you’re ability to hire a divorce attorney and that you’ll use to pay for his/her legal services. It’s expected that you’ll bring the retainer to the intake appointment when you meet with your divorce attorney. As mentioned in our previous post, you should use the consultation to request information about retainer amounts, payment methods, and fee agreements.

Read: What’s a Retainer and What Should Be Included in the Retainer Fee Agreement.

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One last thing about the retainer payment, if someone other than yourself will be paying on your behalf, it’s best that you inform your divorce attorney of this ahead of time (such as, during the consultation or when you’re scheduling the intake appointment). Some divorce and family law firms will only take checks from a third party. Some divorce and family law firms require the third party to appear in person to confirm identity and to obtain permission; while other divorce and family law firms will take a third party’s credit card number over the phone. The point is, if a third party will be paying the retainer, you’ll want to know if there are any additional procedures that are required ahead of time to ensure you’re prepared for the intake appointment.    

5. Driver’s License and/or State Identification Card:

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Your driver’s license and/or state identification card will be used by the divorce attorney to confirm your identity at the intake appointment. Identity confirmation is a very important practice because it ensures your safety and confidentiality by preventing someone from obtaining private information about you and your case by pretending to be you. In addition, if you’re paying the initial retainer with your credit card, your driver’s license or state identification card will prove that you own the account. Lastly, if you’re working with a small law firm or solo practitioner for your divorce, you most likely won’t need to show your I.D. card again to the divorce attorney after the initial intake appointment. 

6. A Guest, such as a Friend or Family Member:

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We’ve added a guest to the list of things to bring to an intake appointment with a divorce attorney not because you necessarily should or shouldn’t bring someone with you, but because it’s something that you should decide before the  intake appointment with the divorce attorney. In addition, it’s something that you should discuss with the divorce attorney either during the consultation or when you’re scheduling an intake appointment. Before you decide, know the pros and cons of bringing someone with you to an intake appointment with a divorce attorney.

Hopefully you’ve gotten a better idea of what to talk about with a divorce attorney during a consultation and when scheduling an intake appointment, and what you’ll want to bring with you to the intake appointment through this blog series, What to Know Before Meeting with Your Divorce Attorney.

Now here’s what happens at intake with a divorce attorney so you’re better prepared and 5 tips when meeting with your divorce attorney for the first time

 

Comments

5 Comments on "Preparing for an Intake Appointment with a Divorce Attorney"

  1. Cal Driver on Wed, 3rd Feb 2016 2:57 pm 

    Great post. Divorce is such a nervy, emotional time, it’s hard to keep your head in the game and focus on what’s immediately needed. This is a great list for someone in that position. If I could recommend something, I’d advise that anyone in the middle of a divorce proceeding should set aside a few hours one night and get a massage or see a movie or go do something you enjoy. Really helps alleviate stress and approach things with a clearer, calmer head. Best of luck!

  2. mndivorcelawyer on Wed, 13th Apr 2016 8:52 am 

    Hi Cal,
    Thank you for your kind feedback and tip. Completely agree with you – self care and stress relief is so important during the divorce process. It can be especially difficult if you’re a divorcing parent. It’s not uncommon for a parent to be so concerned about how the kids are coping with the divorce that s/he completely neglects his/her own well-being and care. However, as a parent, you have to make sure that you’re taking care of yourself, so that you’re better able to take care of the children.

  3. Jason Strong on Tue, 23rd Feb 2016 4:28 pm 

    There are so many things that go into a divorce process. It’s hard and can get very confusing among those whoa are going through the divorce. That’s why divorce lawyers are so crucial in this whole process. They are able to make the whole divorcing process easier to handle.

  4. Dee Francis on Wed, 24th Feb 2016 6:12 pm 

    I have a list of lawyers that I would like to meet with, so this list for the things that I should bring with me to these interviews will be really helpful. Having my current court document seems like something that I should make sure that I have with me. I’ve just received these documents, so I’ll be sure to bring the Petition and Summons so that I won’t miss the deadline to contest my divorce. I would want to be able to express my opinion when it comes to property division, child custody, and child support, so bringing these documents will be important to have for my case. Now I’ll be able to come prepared when meeting with lawyers for my divorce. Thanks for the tips!

  5. mndivorcelawyer on Wed, 13th Apr 2016 7:59 am 

    Hi Dee,
    Thank you for your comments. We’re glad you found this article helpful and hope that you feel better prepared. We hope that you were able to find a divorce attorney that was right for you.

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